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Deirdre DE LA HAYE

2026 · Wellington

Died 10 August 2026Posted 16 August 2026

Died peacefully on 10 August 2026 at Paraparaumu, aged 89 years, after a brief illness fought with her characteristic grit, and surrounded in the love of her family. Dearly loved wife of the late Max. Beautiful mother and mother-in-law to Debra, Kerry & Andrew Annakin, Rob, Rowan & Pete Busby, and Fiona & Roy Martin. Loving grandmother to Kimberly De La Haye, and Max, Rebecca & Vaughn Tattersall, Toby, Mikahere & Paris, Pedro, and Tamara Busby, and also a proud great-grandmother. During her full and active life, Paddy was a dedicated homemaker, an avid tennis player, talented at knitting, sewing and crochet, and enjoyed travelling around NZ and overseas.

A Memorial Service to celebrate Paddy's life will be held at Our Lady of Kapiti Catholic Church, 1 Presentation Way, Paraparaumu, on Wednesday 19 August 2026 at 11.00am. A special thanks to the awesome staff of the Coastal Villas Care Home for their caring and support to Paddy (and family) in her final months. Paddy's service will be livestreamed at kapiti-catholic.org.nz

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Our Lady of Kapiti Catholic Church

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